So
you’ve met a couple or a single bi-female that you and your spouse
think is hot, and now you’re ready to go out on a date… isn’t
that kind of weird? Where will we go? Are we supposed to talk about sex?
What if they’re crazy?
The
answers to those four questions are 1) yes at first, 2) wherever you’d
go on a regular date, 3) only if you like to, and 4) we’re all a
little crazy, so stop acting silly. It’s just a date after all,
and a potentially delicious one at that. Maybe dinner. Maybe dancing.
Maybe a movie. Or straight to a bar for Tequila shooters and a game of
20 sexy questions. Get together and do whatever you want, it’s your
call. |
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Don’t
be afraid to talk about sex, but don’t hawk on it either. The phrase
“going with the flow” has never been more appropriate, just
relax and do/say what comes naturally. Don’t forget to be completely
honest about what you’re doing in the lifestyle, even if you’re
just curious. And don’t be shy about asking about their experience
in the lifestyle too. Swingers often refer to group chemistry as a “vibe”,
and you’ll hear it more and more. The vibe is an overall feeling
of clicking with several couples and singles at once and when nurtured
properly, can land you flesh-deep in erotic play for hours and hours…
and hours more. |
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